Like many divorced parents, you and your ex-spouse may have difficulty getting along. Things may be tense when you speak with each other or meet to exchange the children. However, if your ex is doing things that seem to be affecting your relationship with your children, he or she may be attempting to alienate them from you. You and other California parents should understand the circumstances surrounding parental alienation syndrome.
It can be difficult to recognize when you are a victim of domestic violence or abuse in California. One of the reasons for this is that the treatment you receive can alter your perceptions, but another reason is that abuse does not always take a recognizable form, such as physical violence.
Whether you are currently going through the divorce process, or you are simply considering filing for divorce, there are a myriad of issues to tackle. Child support is one of the issues that must be looked at when terminating a marriage. It is important that children have ample financial and emotional support from both parents, even after the marriage has ended. California follows an income shares model of child support, which believes that children should receive the same amount of financial support that they would have been entitled to if their parents had stayed together. In the model, the income of both parents is determined and the child support amount due is based on the results of the table.
Like other forms of relationship abuse in California, financial abuse can and does occur across all racial and ethnic groups, at all educational and socioeconomic levels and can victimize either women or men. However, according to the National Network to End Domestic Violence, it is a less commonly understood form of abuse despite being among the most prominent forms, occurring in 99 percent of domestic violence cases.
Falling behind on child support can result in many different challenges, from anxiety to the threat of being taken into custody. However, there are other ways in which becoming delinquent on child support payments can disrupt a parent's life. For example, a non-custodial parent who cannot pay their child support for one reason or another may be unable to move forward with an overseas trip that they have been planning. Or, they may suffer tax consequences, such as having a portion of their tax refund garnished or their entire refund taken away.
Californian parents have big questions to ask about future child-rearing plans through the divorce process. How will they handle parenting moving forward? Will one parent have primary custody while the other sticks to a visitation schedule? More and more often, parents are instead choosing joint custody, especially due to its benefits.
At the Law Office of Stephen W. Penn and Associates, we understand that the holidays can be a lonely time of year for many Californians, especially when they are divorced. When your children spend Christmas with your ex, the sting of being alone can be particularly painful.
After you make the difficult decision to file for legal separation or divorce, you face many complicated issues. One of the most complex, however, may be that of child custody. When children are involved in a divorce, it is critical that decisions are made with their best interests in mind. It can be hard for parents to put aside their differences and do what is best for the children. In some cases, children may be made to live in the sole physical custody of one parent, while the other parent is given visitation rights. Yet, studies show that joint parenting may be more beneficial for children. In fact, researchers have found that when children spend a significant amount of time with both parents, they show long-term advantages when compared to children who are raised in a one-parent household.
When California parents decide to get a divorce, one thing they usually need to discuss is child support. It is important for people to understand the details about these payments, especially when they are the ones who will need to make them.
As a parent in California, watching your child go through a divorce, no matter what their age, can be stressful and heartbreaking. This is especially true if there are custody issues. However, a divorce doesn't need to isolate you from your family. At the Law Office of Stephen W. Penn and Associates, we often represent clients who file for visitation rights to ensure they can maintain a relationship with their grandchildren.